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TREAT HER RIGHT CAMPAIGN.

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I had the opportunity to join 9 other women from different sectors ( all of them older and well - versed) than I am  at the “Treat Her Right” Dinner Campaign by EMY AFRICA AWARD at the XO restaurant at One Airport Square.  We had a meaningful discourse about what it means for men to treat women right and the importance of raising good men who respect women and treat them right. The fun evening was filmed and will be played back on television so that the discussion and insights we had  can reach a wider audience. Catch this beautiful and educational experience Tomorrow  @ 7pm on Joy Prime TV DSTV channel.  Happy Mother’s Day in advance to all women. #mothers day celebration# @emyafrica @joyprimeofficial @dstv_ghana #women of substance# #treat her right campaign# #celebrate women# #love women# #women are queens# #discourse# #discussions# #women in discussion#

Kuburah Diamonds Ramadhan Elements

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Alhamdullilah Alhamdullilah! The ever most beautiful month and the only HOLY month is the Islamic Calendar is here again.  I would say Alhamdullilah for the umpteenth and still be willing to say more. You know why? Because it’s just by Allah’s infinite mercy and grace you, you and I are alive to witness yet another important month like this for Muslims.  Fasting is a solid pillar in Islam and this can never be over emphasised or downplayed. As Muslims except for the aged, pregnant women, nursing mothers, ill- fit persons, pregnant women, women who have menstrual bleeding and people travelling on long journeys, everyone is expected to fast for 29-30 days. Infact,    it’s an obligation and so it’s a must! Ironically, the blessings of this month are so overwhelming such that the people who are exempted form taking part, find it emotionally disheartening but for their health issues they have little or no option at all to stay off. Now tell me what will make you and I who are v

Ramadhan Couple Goals

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We are super excited about Ramadan and all geared up. It’s a time for supplications, pure intention, generosity. 1-  Do not be stingy in showing your love for your spouse daily, just as you offer them daily delicious meals. 2-  Do not think that love entails that you offer big material sacrifices. Rather, you need to offer greater moral and spiritual sacrifices. So, be morally and spiritually generous with your partner  and you will own them. 3-  Thank your spouse for their care, kindness and generosity. Do not treat them on the basis that they are obliged to take care of you, for this will diminish their care for you as time passes. 4-  Be fully convinced that gold, money, authority and a luxurious lifestyle are valueless when there is no love. A life which is full of love is the successful marital life. Without love, the chances of a successful marriage are almost non-existent. 5-  Grant your spouse a different Ramadan as well as a different, or rather wonderful, marital relatio

Some Zongo lifestyles that overshadows the need for proper child upbringing.

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Help me understand this if you can. But for me maybe it’s a rocket science so finding it difficult to understand. How do some of our zongo mothers who always buy yaaye  feel when the next morning their wards  ask them for anything regarding their wellbeing ie. food, educational necessities etc. and they  are not able to provide? These mothers are able to save monies to buy “yaaye” and other materialistic stuff like gold jewelries just to follow the band wagon of zongo imposed set standard but taking steps which will ensure their children wellbeing is guaranteed means nothing to them. I wonder who initiated this crap of a lifestyle that allows parents especially women puts their selfish needs ahead of their children just to impress the society. Isn’t it supposed to be the other way round? I am told by all means the ignorance ones MUST fall for the pressure otherwise they will fall short of a set particular standard which will make them be seen someway. Ironically, most of ou

Don’t succumb to societal pressure into marriage when you are not ready.

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Alhamdullilah I was just told one of my articles got published in last Saturday’s SPECTATOR Newspaper. Am really humbled. I wrote this article last year August, thank Allah a media house found it worth publishing.                   Kindly go and grap a copy. Let’s tell the real stories together. #write to educate# #write2inspure# #write2motivate# #themuslumwomanachiever# kuburahdiamonds# #marriage# #lifeinmarriage# #realstoriesinmarriage# #behindthescenesinmarriage# #females# women# #marriedlife and living it##Muslim woman# @The Spectator newspaper thank you so much.