Women, Build Your Financial Freedom Even If You Are Married To The Richest Person.
A thousand times, I will tell young women to build a
Don’t say, he’s got it all so you can’t be bothered to do anything. Build your capacity. Own your future. Enlarge your territories.
Today, most women are suffering because they built all their financial hope on their late husbands, little did they know the wind of death and even time could change everything. Families, suddenly have become interested in the sacrifices that helped built their husband’s fortunes.
Women who sacrificed their education, time and skill just to stay home and take care of their children instead of getting a help to do that so money can be saved for building a better future.
Women who accepted to be housewives to get the home going so their husbands can have peace of mind to work hard and build their future.
Today, all those sacrifices have turned beans. Family members say it’s their own. How sad.
Please it’s never a crime for a woman to also work hard and be successful. You can be very successful and be married and still be submissive.
No matter how much you acquire and earn in life, that will not change the command, authority and respect you must give to your husband unless you decide so.
You will continue to be the woman of the house and he, man of the house in the eyes of Allah. Titles and positions do not change because a wife is richer like her husband or even richer than him.
To even become successful as a wife you need to be very submissive to your husband so that, the blessings of marriage and that you get from your husband will follow you.
I grew up seeing my mother do every halal business. She was a gold seller, a good seller, a cloth seller, a caterer, a land, cars and house seller.
Oranges, tomatoes and vegetables seller, provisions name them. She was a proper Yoruba woman when it comes to business.
My mother had a financial freedom even though my father was very very responsible husband and father that didn’t stop her and that didn’t hurt her marriage.
Mum was very very submissive, infact beyond the word submissive but I learnt one thing from her. Which is no matter how great you become as a woman and you are married, your husband is your husband and you need to accord him that respect.
You must humble yourself and serve him according to the teachings of Allah and whatever you do, blessings follow it.
But if it’s a man who abuses you verbally, emotional and physically and not responsible that one “ a word to a wise is enough”.
No matter how successful you are or become, your husband must fulfil his responsibilities as a husband unless you decide that’s ok you can take care of certain things yourself. It’s permissible provided that’s what you want.
Build your financial freedom. Nobody knows tomorrow. Tables can turn.
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