Don’t quit your job for marriage, find the balance and work at making both successful

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Oh my God!! One of my articles on ‘marriage and career’ made it to The Spectator’s on PAGE 23 GENDER COLUMN today. Marriage and having a career is sometimes very demanding and challenging but don’t quit your job because of marriage. Find the balance and work at making the two successful. Kindly grab a copy. #themuslimwomanachiever #kuburahdiamonds #thespectator #weekendnewspaper #gender #marriage & career #significant #challenging  #balance #lifestyle #women empowerment #speak2educate#speak to change #speak 2 educate #Muslim women #work and marriage #career women #Entreprenuers #working class women @The Spectator Newspaper ...Your Weekend Companion  This Article is dedicated to my husband @sadiqabdulaiabu in our first few months of marriage I wasn’t seeing top with playing the wife role versus being a corporate woman. Several times, I lamented I wanted to quit and just stay home take care of my kids and play my marriage duties very well. He said to me “no you have to work too, having a career as a married woman makes you even more empowered. Having a career as a woman adds value to your life.” #the corporate woman #zongo career woman #Muslim career woman #self attainment empower yourself #skill #trade

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