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esterday, the President directed we all go back to our work after the 3 weeks locked down. I have read and heard many rants, submissions and commentary about this decision. Some are happy and  others are not at all. Some have questioned his decision, others have praised and the rest  go with the flow. It’s two or more things; •You are not happy because you feel your life is at risk. (Everybody’s lives matter). •The garlic seller or petty trader  is not happy because the borders are closed so the business that’s supports her family needs  is at a stand  until further notice. •The less privileged young man  is also tired of going to queue for longer hours and still not getting any food package, so he’s better off going out to hustle and buy his own bread and butter. •A business owner is worried because for a shop or company to close for 3 weeks means a great loss and employees will suffer more because the risk of redundancy might trigger  if care is not taken. •The benevolent

Corona Virus has changed our way of living and times are hard. Most of us are not working  to even be sure of the next salary while the monies we have on us is also running out of the three decimal points. Same story for people who work for themselves. Nobody is patronising business and services like before in Accra and Kumasi and so daily, weekly  or monthly earnings have been affected greatly. Regardless,  we are all in the same soup to stay home in order to prevent the spread of this deadly disease. So whether you have  little or much money, you still need to buy foodstuff because none of us knowhow long this locked down will go. Before buying, take note of these 5  important Corona Virus shopping strategy to help you save more but get more. 1. Buy the most important items you truly can’t do without before any other thing. 2. When buying fruits, plantain, tomatoes, garden eggs buy the unripped ones so it will ripe in your house. You know these easily perish. 3. Buy your

My body size before I started giving birth and what my body looks after 2 babies through CS. If you are a new mum or had a child/ children through CS and  your body has changed. Know this and don’t kill yourself. Some of us have been able to work out to get back in shape and others due to their genes didn’t have to go through any stress to get back to their normal shape. But the rest of us, reason we can’t get back in shape could be due to some health issues though some of us can’t be bothered to work on OUR bodies again. But in general, our  bodies do not  need to be wrapped or squeezed or changed. It needs to be valued and revered for the incredible life it  brought into this world. THAT is beauty and THAT is all it needs. Kudos to all the amazing CS mothers especially the new moms. Our bodies used about 9 months or less to prepare a baby, brought it out through operation so  take a chill pill, don't stress yourself up, your body will get in shape sooner or later.

Don’t go and kill your relationship by beginning to  suspect your partner when you see them acting a certain way or because of what you have seen about the way men cheat on the internet. Trust me, a man who loves you for the sake of Allah and selfishly for himself will never give you any reason to doubt him. A man who prides himself as an honest husband will not make you feel threatened or insecure. That not withstanding, know and note it down, never ever beat your chest  to say your partner can never cheat. Pray and hope so in your heart. Yes, be proud if he doesn’t and keep that VIM in your head and continue to pray for him not to come into contact with a Jezebel  kind of woman or doesn’t control of himself. And because you are very religious, beautiful physically, intelligent, smart, supportive, hardworking, stylish, sexy, good in bed, confident, learned, educated, decent, best cook, best mother to his children, have the best of relationship with his friends and family wi

Just maybe when I run my voice over one of the popular ZANGO meal, I can get their attention. ADIZAH KUBURAH BRAIMAH KUBURAH DIAMONDS

Dear ZANGO, What I see in our communities by some of us regarding how we are taking the  safety measures in preventing the spread of CORONA VIRUS is really worrying. As a people, it’s about time, we change our “I don’t care attitude. Our negligence, sheer ignorance, adamant to this DEADLY DISEASE is troubling. Till date, some of us still organize  marriage, naming, funeral (Aduwa)  ceremonies and other events that bring people together in one space. We have been cautioned to pray in our various homes but some disregard the instruction and still go and pray in their numbers close to each other in the mosque. Most of the men whom you expect should know better  still go out their normal activities including going to sit together in their numbers at the various joints and bases just to play draught and card game like nothing is happening in this country. Infact, it looks like it’s a deliberate attempt  to flaunt the safety measures in the spread of this deadly disease. It chal

How much do some parent want to be counselled before they become conscious about being responsible parents about their own children? The elders have a saying, and it goes, “if a child is in their mother’s womb, it’s for her only but the moment it comes out, it becomes everyone’s child” literally meaning that, how you take responsibility of your own children becomes whether you like it or not becomes everyone’s concern unless it’s not a society that looks out for each other. Agree or disagree, there are many cases where a parent or both parent are deceased and so the children must be given to the immediate family members or any other person deem as capable to  to cater for them. Other times, either a single parent or both parent are much alive but due to financial constrain they seek for help from people they can entrust them to help raise their children. But until it’s imperative that you and I (parent) are not physically, mentally and financially incapable of raising our chi

Do you know that sometimes your parents decision on who you should marry can ruin your marriage? Regrettably, some people wake up each day cursing their own parent for being the cause of their marriage predicament. Thing is, no matter how you feel about your parent’s advice/ decision concerning your life even when you leave their home, you are still in no position whatsoever to turn their  instruction down? We have been morally and culturally trained to know that, for us to live long, blessed and hearty we have to obey our parents and it’s an instructive obligation commanded by Almighty Allah in the Holy Quran that our parent must protect us in every way physical, spiritual and moral they can. Your parent brought you in this world hence it is only in line that they  care for you and when you mature  you reciprocate. This is what a parent to child and a child to parent obligation means in simple terms. If there’s any decision we want to take for our own  long term interest lik

LADIES, you see that dick you are sneaking to go and chop even when you know it’s not morally right? Subhanalah even during Ramadan! That is what is encouraging some of these men who don’t think beyond any other important thing with regards to having relationship other than their sexual fantasies and satisfaction hence continue to take most women for granted. Oh yes! Women! accept  it or not it’s a bitter cola to chew. The truth of the matter is we give it to them for FREE thinking that’s what seal the relationship. And adds to the reason most of them don’t want to settle down in real time. We do it with him for long and just when we  decide enough is enough, wanting marriage and marriage not showing it’s beautiful face because dude is already enjoying all the juice without playing any major role. At a point, some of us we get frustrated and threaten to leave and finally leave but ironically dude still goes to the other woman who allows him to have his way and on and on he ge