Why A Successful Woman Shouldn’t Turn You Off.

Baby girl please don’t allow anyone lie to you that it will be difficult to get a husband if you acquire a degree/ masters degree/ PHD/ own  car / have a managerial position at work/ run your own business.

See, listen unless you allow all that I have stated above to make you bossy and disrespectful, any man who sees you and is ready to marry you will level up or marry you based on what you both agree on. 

If he’s above you good for you, if he’s equal to you, marriage will  humble you to be submissive if he’s a good husband, however if he’s lower the standard you have attained in life, you can still marry him why not? That will not change your name from B to Z. Once it’s two adults involved taking a lifetime decision, you two will be just fine. 

I don’t get why a woman choosing to empower herself and her life before marriage should be a hindrance to why she’s not getting a suitor. 

Truth is, if a man is not lazy and weak why should this even intimidate him to speak to a woman he’s in love with and wish to marry? Speak to her if you cut for her why not, if she’s doesn’t agree, you move on. 

Please I want to understand. So how come women don’t feel this way about men who are all that? Or you say good things are for men alone, a woman’s place is to always be under a man and not more than him?

Please stop shaming women who have struggled hard to be successful but still not married because you feel their successes is why they are still not married. 

This ain’t cool at all. 

Goodnight